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I help people whose work includes interactions with people, as well as the part no tool captures:

What a conversation leaves running, and what actually closes it.

A day of meetings, decisions, and difficult conversations leaves things running in your system after it is officially over. It can look like a focus problem or a stress problem. Often it is a carry-over problem: the interaction never properly closed, so part of your attention is still in it.

How the method works

 

Where this comes from

The perception part did not begin as a method. For a long time it was just something that kept happening, and I mostly kept it to myself. Sometimes it even annoyed me, because it had no valid explanation.

In the same month I met two people, separately, who did not know each other. Before either of them said anything about their past, I knew they came from the same small town in another country. They did.

I would know, from another city, that a friend was in trouble, and call, and be right.

I knew when a text message I sent was received and read without checking the phone. Not always very useful information, but annoyingly accurate.
 

I have a mind that wants to know how things work, and an engineer's training, so I started keeping score. Not a formal lab notebook, just a private record of when the signal was right, when it was wrong, and what the difference felt like from the inside. I also started studying intuition, psychology, my old physics textbooks...

I did that for a few years before I let it anywhere near my work with people. Even then, only in a personal network at first. People brought me interactions they could not close on their own, and the combination held: analysis for the structure, perception for the part the structure missed.

 

It took me twenty years to be willing to put that sentence on a public page.

How I work

My training is in biotech engineering, and I treat this work the same way: as a mechanism with identifiable parts, inputs, and outputs.

The foundation is neuroscience and evidence-based positive psychology. That part is trained too: ICF-accredited training in positive psychology coaching, and years of my own study on top of it, because accreditation covers the ground floor and my questions did not stop there. On top of that foundation, trained perception, calibrated, and accountable to results.

The same perception that reads what a conversation leaves running is what keeps me connected to my own purpose. I know whether something belongs to that purpose or not, and I have learned to act on the answer in both directions.

I have walked away from studies and relationships when the answer was no. I do not walk away from what carries a yes. This work has carried a yes for twenty years.

 

I am not neutral, and I do not drift.

 

Clients feel this within the first session anyway, so it is better said here: I am not neutral, and I do not drift. What you do with what we find is your call, always. But whatever you decide, you will have my support.

Where to start

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